men...

A man, is the one around whom you feel 100% woman...the one that loves those quirks that express your femininity, that loves to watch you sleep in the morning, the one that loves your dress...your stalkings...and when you are not there...he caresses and smells the pillow in search of your sent.

Sounds romantic?...well if women, often can find love in various man ,if given the chance...with men it's a different story...when they fall in love...you’ll know it...they bring it all out...
And still it is said ,that the woman is the one that chooses the man...if that is so...then they only give in to certain kind of charms..
There is no secret recipe...there's only faith...and if you're wondering why some people get divorced or breakup from an "it was written "kind of story...then read the previous post...

keep up with me...and i'll keep up with u...

"You must change in order to remain the same."
Simone de Beauvoir

Things change in life, permanently!

Relationships are no exception!

Some start shy, some with a big bang, and some just blossom over time, the point is ...they evolve. Keeping up adapting or just growing up are the only things that keep people together, as friends…partners... lovers.
Some are just not meant to be and some last for ever…we can learn from each and every one of them…from the ones we shared them with…and take only the best memories with us trough life…and every time…they change us .

When people fail to listen, to try to understand and or to keep up with the person next to you…that’s when things slip away
… and isn’t that a shame?

BRIEF NOTE

Ladies, gents....yes I am aware that there are exceptions, but I rather be surprised in the real world than paint just another pretty picture in my blog .lets keep the good guys and good girls in fairytale ending kind of' stories...and enjoy this blog as one about general rules..."guide lines"...as the pirates say...;).
I write about what I see, learn… not fiction. My inspiration comes from cruel realities...expectations; those are the things that might just make it all worth when fairytale come to life...they just might be worth it.

after love...

How many tears should we shed?

Can you really forget someone; heal a broken heart with tears or cry yourself to sleep for how many nights?

No.

You can’t ….

Okay…crying is good to release pain but don’t make a habit of it!!!

As a SHE you can do so many things to forget. Bring your girls over, talk and talk until you realizes he is not the guy you fell in love with, go out, have fun. Flirts as much as you can, enjoy being a woman! Groom yourself in a local spa or get a pet and focus all your love on it.

As a HE…well men have a different strategy of healing…they tend to fuck everything with 2 legs and a pair of boobs. They feel the need to be “macho”. But sooner or lather they realize that like crying ,fucking gets them nowhere…and they stop and move on…and fuck for pleasure..not pain...'cause they always fuck.

Yes, yes…I know. The nights are lonely and you miss someone by your side…you got to remember one thing…when you lose everything you always got yourself…be yourself no mater what."And of all the cruelty that I’ll ever see, I will love only the best of you and me!"

Neither beginnings nor endings are easy. They are simply necessary.

As the sun will set and rise again and again for each and every one of us, so will love.

2 of a kind....

Men are weak and all women are the same when the lights are off!

Who’s right?

….well…both of course, but it goes the other way around to.

Why?

Because of their nature.

Men are often depicted as hunters by brokenhearted women, but also, we know that there are out there many seductive women that settle the scores too .So the game is on!

We deserve each others, we lie, we cheat, and yet we also fall in love.

I guess making mistakes is in our human nature…but yet again we were built to aspire to perfection...so why do we make it so hard for ourselves?

We love from such early ages that by the time we reach our 20 –yes we already know the meaning of "broken heart"…and that is not good. We’re too young to give up…especially because feelings change…even if you are in a relationship, making it stronger or not; or just knowing better ourselves in order to know how to love and where to find it more wisely. How about we live every moment and enjoy every ending like a new beginning? That should help, only if we open our views.

Love is not an art, is not common, is not easy and doesn’t change you or the one beside you…it just makes us better in every way ‘cause that's what it was meant for…to arise our spirit. It is the perfect place to be free and lets us be 100% ourselves in the company of that special person.

Or so it should be…

entry

Men and women aren't too different you know. They're just really good at misfiting things …especially LOVE.
For instance: why do sensible people always end up with the opposite kind of people? In these situations it always ends up with somebody’s broken heart. Of course there are many happy couples who would contradict me, but then again, there are no couples without problems. Blissfulness is a temporary state, it comes and goes without remorse, and therefore we often end up asking ourselves why does happiness hurries to become a memory. Sweet memories are indeed painful, aren’t they?

We are humans… we need company ,to feel somebody warm next to us, and we are also reasonable beings…not animals…although trying to prove that lately it is kind of hard.