after love...

How many tears should we shed?

Can you really forget someone; heal a broken heart with tears or cry yourself to sleep for how many nights?

No.

You can’t ….

Okay…crying is good to release pain but don’t make a habit of it!!!

As a SHE you can do so many things to forget. Bring your girls over, talk and talk until you realizes he is not the guy you fell in love with, go out, have fun. Flirts as much as you can, enjoy being a woman! Groom yourself in a local spa or get a pet and focus all your love on it.

As a HE…well men have a different strategy of healing…they tend to fuck everything with 2 legs and a pair of boobs. They feel the need to be “macho”. But sooner or lather they realize that like crying ,fucking gets them nowhere…and they stop and move on…and fuck for pleasure..not pain...'cause they always fuck.

Yes, yes…I know. The nights are lonely and you miss someone by your side…you got to remember one thing…when you lose everything you always got yourself…be yourself no mater what."And of all the cruelty that I’ll ever see, I will love only the best of you and me!"

Neither beginnings nor endings are easy. They are simply necessary.

As the sun will set and rise again and again for each and every one of us, so will love.

2 of a kind....

Men are weak and all women are the same when the lights are off!

Who’s right?

….well…both of course, but it goes the other way around to.

Why?

Because of their nature.

Men are often depicted as hunters by brokenhearted women, but also, we know that there are out there many seductive women that settle the scores too .So the game is on!

We deserve each others, we lie, we cheat, and yet we also fall in love.

I guess making mistakes is in our human nature…but yet again we were built to aspire to perfection...so why do we make it so hard for ourselves?

We love from such early ages that by the time we reach our 20 –yes we already know the meaning of "broken heart"…and that is not good. We’re too young to give up…especially because feelings change…even if you are in a relationship, making it stronger or not; or just knowing better ourselves in order to know how to love and where to find it more wisely. How about we live every moment and enjoy every ending like a new beginning? That should help, only if we open our views.

Love is not an art, is not common, is not easy and doesn’t change you or the one beside you…it just makes us better in every way ‘cause that's what it was meant for…to arise our spirit. It is the perfect place to be free and lets us be 100% ourselves in the company of that special person.

Or so it should be…

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Men and women aren't too different you know. They're just really good at misfiting things …especially LOVE.
For instance: why do sensible people always end up with the opposite kind of people? In these situations it always ends up with somebody’s broken heart. Of course there are many happy couples who would contradict me, but then again, there are no couples without problems. Blissfulness is a temporary state, it comes and goes without remorse, and therefore we often end up asking ourselves why does happiness hurries to become a memory. Sweet memories are indeed painful, aren’t they?

We are humans… we need company ,to feel somebody warm next to us, and we are also reasonable beings…not animals…although trying to prove that lately it is kind of hard.